” The fact is that we all live our lives in groups- the family, work groups, social and religious and political groups.” Being in groups is something that is second nature to us just because of the way society is brought together. The American Dream is to have a better life. Having a better life consists of having equality, we want to all be equal. In the older days, equality was not present and it is something that got so much better in this modern day, but still not to the fullest yet. This dream of wanting equality is nothing easy, but it is controversial. Many people are still racist, some people might remissness the past, whatever the case is, it is a problem that is still taking place everywhere. Part of equality is learning how to accept it. Although a certain person might hate the other, they might be in the same group, so the best thing they could do is figure out what’s wrong, try to solve it, and connect with a group mind to come to a further conclusion on whatever the case or scenario might be.
A group mind is more than just a mind. A group mind is an idea, shared from many ideas. For instance a team, when they play, it is not 1 vs 5, it is 5 vs 5. If four of the teammates on one team are on the same page and that other one person is not, that is going to mess things up if the other 5 players on the other team are on the same page. A team would unconsciously come up with decisions in the present moment of the game, using their group mind and everything they have learned together. A group mind is more than just coming to an agreement to something other than sports or games. Imagine having a group project worth 75 percent of your grade and you have two other partners. A group mind will get the best grade on that if the members of the group take advantage of having the opportunity to be in a group. Most people don’t use the opportunity to be in a group to their advantage. Most of the time, one person might be doing all the work, whiles the others are agreeing what they have to say even if they are not exactly sure if they are right. A group mind is not just agreeing to what the others have to say, but debating why that is the right answer and trying to figure out if their are any other ideas that might come to a better answer.
Western society is a group orientated society and it second nature for most of us just the way everything is brought together. Not too many people are content with being alone and those people are sometimes seen as odd, but are not the ones to blame. The way we were brought in this society was together, which is why everyone is so used to it. If we were alone more, we wouldn’t have problems being alone because we would be used to it. We are always trying to be a part of a certain group and when that group dissolves, our initial reaction is to find another one. Rather than us making our own decisions with our own mind, society usually makes our decisions for us and that’s just how things are. When we are in a group, our group members are like our professors because when opinions are shared confidently, we believe them even if we are not exactly sure if it is right. Just because the group feels some way, some members will just agree with whatever and not even try to share the ideas that they have. This might occur because it might be hard to share in front of a group, some people might be afraid they have the wrong answer, but this is something we need to get better and develop to take full advantage of a “Group Mind.”
The American Dream is to have equality and we should be proud of the American Dream. Everyone wants a chance to have a voice and handle any situation they want to handle it. If they feel a certain way, they should speak up and use the advantages we have in this present day compared to the old days when the American Dream seemed further away than anything. This is not the case that is going on right now. People say things like they are going to speak their mind, or they are their own person, they have their own rights, but for most people, that is just talk. We are so afraid and worried about what others have to say where we forget about or morals and the way we want to live our life, but still for some reason have trouble with it. Majority opinions in a group determine our thoughts sometimes just because of the pressure of a group which was presented in Asch. Sometimes the pressure might be so strong for someone, that they wont even share what they say, even if deep down they are dying to let something out.
Some people get very excited when they hear about being in a group and the first thing that comes to some people’s mind is that they have nothing to do now. When you have a task that needed to be done by yourself you are more likely not to slack and contribute more because of the obedience to authority that is second nature to us. It might be hard to stand out in a group which is why a person might not want to contribute but we have been in groups our whole life, so it something where we need to learn how to adapt to and get comfortable with it. When people disagree with each other in a group, instead of changing it with discussing it or challenging the opinion, and coming to a group mind, they just let it be. A group mind is more than letting things come to you because there are more people around, but it is to come all together, with shared opinions and ideas to come to a better and stronger group conclusion.
